Ten days from Ankara to Antalya: Turkey without Istanbul, down the middle to the sea
Nine nights and one straight line: three in the capital, two in the old Seljuk city, four on the Mediterranean, joined by a fast train and one bus over the mountains.
- Length
- 10 days, 9 nights
- Where you stay
- Ankara, Konya, Antalya
- Places
- 23 across 10 days

Almost every first trip to Turkey lands in Istanbul, goes to Cappadocia, sees Ephesus and flies home. This one does none of that. It runs straight down the middle of the country instead, from the capital on the Anatolian plateau to the Mediterranean, and it costs about half as much.
Ankara is the surprise. It was a town of thirty thousand people until Atatürk made it the capital in 1923, and it looks like what that produced: wide roads, government blocks, not much charm. Underneath is a Roman and Ottoman town on a citadel hill, and inside that, in a converted covered market, the museum that holds nearly everything anyone has dug out of Anatolia. Hittites, Phrygians, Urartians, all of it in one building.
Then a fast train to Konya, where the Seljuks built their capital and Rumi is buried, and a bus over the Taurus mountains to Antalya, where the Romans left two of the best preserved cities in Turkey within an hour of a beach. Nine nights, two transfers, no internal flights and no hurry.
Highlights
- The Hittite and Phrygian rooms in Ankara, in a 15th century market hall under the citadel
- A wooden mosque of 1290 whose interior is a forest of carved columns, listed by UNESCO in 2023
- Rumi's tomb under its turquoise tower, and the turning ceremony done as a religious rite rather than a show
- A Roman theatre at Aspendos so complete that they still put concerts in it
- Two thousand years of city wall, gate and lighthouse in the middle of Antalya's old town, and the sea below it
Where to stay

Ankara, three nights
The old city is a hill with a citadel on it, north of the modern centre, and the good things are on that hill or within a kilometre of its foot: the museum, the Seljuk mosque, the Roman baths and the temple that carries Augustus's own account of his reign. Atatürk's mausoleum is on a second hill to the west.
Everything else in Ankara is a capital city doing capital city work. It sprawls, it commutes and it does not care whether you are here, which after Istanbul is a considerable relief.
Three nights is right: two full days of sightseeing, one evening spare, and the train south on the fourth morning. Stay in Ulus for the old town or Kızılay for the restaurants and bars, and use the metro between them.
Konya, two nights
By train from Ankara, about 231 km.
Konya sits on a wheat plain with nothing on the horizon, and it is the one stop on this trip that people come to on pilgrimage rather than on holiday. Rumi is buried here and several million visitors a year come to stand at his tomb.
It was also the capital of the Sultanate of Rum, the Seljuk state that ran Anatolia for two centuries, and the seminaries and mosques those sultans built are the finest of their kind anywhere. Two of them are within a hundred metres of each other at the foot of the central mound.
Two nights covers all of it comfortably, and the arrival afternoon is enough for the shrine if the train gets you in by lunchtime.

Antalya, four nights
By bus from Konya, about 192 km.
Antalya is a resort city of two and a half million people built along the top of a cliff, with the Roman port below it, an old walled town behind, and a beach at each end. What makes it worth four nights is not the beach: it is the plain to the east, where three Roman cities stand within forty kilometres of the tram line.
Base yourself in Kaleiçi, the old town inside the walls. It is small, it is a mess of Ottoman houses and cats and small hotels, and everything in the city is a walk or one tram from it.
Four nights gives two days of ruins, a day for the old town and the water, and a last morning before the flight. In summer, do the ruins early and swim in the afternoon, because the sites have no shade at all.
Day by day
Day 1 in Ankara
Anıtkabir, and the mosque on the hill
Start where the city starts. Atatürk's mausoleum sits on its own hill west of the centre, approached along an avenue of stone lions, and it is a state monument rather than a museum: soldiers change guard on the hour, school groups come by the busload, and the whole thing is taken extremely seriously.
The museum underneath it is much better than it needs to be, covering the war that made the republic room by room, with the man's own books and cars at the end of it.
In the late afternoon cross to the enormous 20th century mosque south of the centre for the view from its terrace, then eat in Kızılay, where the students are.
- 10:30
Anıtkabir
HistoricThe mausoleum of Mustafa Kemal Atatürk, begun in 1944 and finished in 1953, on a hilltop laid out as a ceremonial route: an avenue lined with stone lions in Hittite style, a vast paved court, and a hall of pale limestone with the sarcophagus at the end. The guard changes on the hour. The museum in the terraces below covers the independence war and the founding of the republic, and it takes as long again as the tomb.

- 16:30
Kocatepe Mosque
ReligiousAnkara's largest mosque was argued about for twenty years before anyone laid a stone: a modernist design was fought off by the conservatives, and what went up between 1967 and 1987 is classical Ottoman, four minarets and a great central dome, on a scale nothing in the city can match. Go up to the terrace for the view over the whole plateau city, and note the shopping centre in the basement.

With more time: Kızılay and the streets around it are where Ankara eats and drinks, and it is a student city, so it is cheap and it stays up late. Look for the meyhane streets off Sakarya Caddesi, where the meze come round on a tray and you point.
Day 2 in Ankara
The Hittite museum, the citadel and the wooden mosque
This is the day Ankara justifies itself. Below the citadel gate, in a 15th century covered market that was rebuilt for the purpose, is the collection of everything excavated on the Anatolian plateau, and it is arranged in one long chronological loop from the neolithic to the Romans.
The Hittite rooms are the ones people remember: reliefs of gods in pointed hats, bronze stags and sun discs from royal graves at Alacahöyük dug more than four thousand years ago, and the clay tablets of a language nobody could read until a century ago.
Then walk up through the cobbled lanes into the citadel itself, which is a lived-in village of small houses inside Roman and Byzantine walls, and come down the far side to the finest Seljuk building in the city.
- 09:30
Museum of Anatolian Civilizations
HistoricHoused in a covered market and a caravanserai of the 1460s below the citadel, converted after the republic to hold what the excavations were producing. The sequence runs from Çatalhöyük through the Hittite empire and the Phrygians of Gordion to Roman Ankara, and the Hittite orthostats and the Phrygian metalwork are as good as anything in Turkey. Allow two hours and take the loop in order; it is built to be read that way.

- 13:00
Lunch in the citadel
EatThe lanes inside the walls have a row of small restaurants in restored houses, several with roof terraces looking over the city. Order the Ankara tava, lamb and rice baked in a dish, and expect it to take a while.
- 14:45
Ankara Castle
HistoricThe rock the city grew on, fortified since at least the Phrygians in the 8th century BC and rebuilt by everyone since, with a double ring of walls patched together out of Roman column drums and inscribed blocks. Inside the walls is a village of old houses, workshops and carpet shops. Climb the eastern tower for the view: the whole plateau, and mountains on a clear day.

- 16:30
Arslanhane Mosque
ReligiousBuilt in 1290 and repaired in 1330, this looks like nothing from the street and is extraordinary inside: a flat wooden ceiling carried on twenty four wooden columns with carved capitals, some of them reused Roman, and a mihrab of moulded tile. It was one of five wooden mosques in central Anatolia inscribed by UNESCO in 2023. Prayer times aside, you can walk in.
With more time: The lanes below the citadel gate are the old bazaar, still selling spices, dried fruit, mohair and copper by the kilo. It is the one part of Ankara that feels like an Ottoman provincial town, which for five hundred years is exactly what it was.
Day 3 in Ankara
Augustus's inscription, the Roman baths and the republic's own museum
Roman Ankara was Ancyra, capital of the province of Galatia, and two pieces of it are worth the morning. The first is a temple wall carrying the fullest surviving copy of the account Augustus wrote of his own achievements, which is now attached to a 15th century mosque and a Sufi tomb, all three in one courtyard.
Ten minutes north are the baths, laid out flat with the underfloor heating exposed, so you can walk between the cold, warm and hot rooms and see how a Roman winter on this plateau was managed.
Keep the afternoon for the museum built in the first years of the republic, which held Atatürk's coffin for fifteen years while his mausoleum was under construction and now holds the Turkish decorative arts. Then pack for the train.
- 09:30
Hacı Bayram Mosque
ReligiousA mosque of 1428 built against the ruins of the Roman temple of Augustus and Rome, restored by Sinan in the 16th century and tiled in the 18th. On the temple wall behind it is the Monumentum Ancyranum, the most complete surviving text of the Res Gestae, in which Augustus set out what he had done with his life. The tomb of Hacı Bayram Veli, a 15th century Sufi poet, is beside it and busy with pilgrims all day.

- 11:00
Roman Baths
HistoricA large bath complex begun under Caracalla around 200 AD and used for five hundred years, now an open field of foundations with the brick pillars of the hypocaust still standing in rows. The hot room is much bigger than the cold one, which tells you what winter on the plateau was like then and still is. Half an hour, and there is no shade.

- 13:30
Ethnography Museum
CultureBuilt between 1925 and 1928 as one of the young republic's first cultural buildings, and used from 1938 to 1953 to hold Atatürk's sarcophagus while Anıtkabir was finished. The collection is Turkish decorative art: carpets, tiles, calligraphy, woodwork, folk costume and a reconstructed dervish lodge. It is quiet, and it is the right preparation for Konya.

With more time: If none of that appeals, the prison museum east of the centre is the most affecting thing in Ankara: a political prison from 1925 to 2006, kept as it was, with the cells of the writers who were held in it labelled. It is not a cheerful hour.
Day 4 in Konya
The train south, and Rumi's tomb
Take a morning train. The high speed line crosses the plateau in well under two hours and puts you in Konya in time for lunch, which is the difference between two nights being enough and not.
Drop the bags and walk to the shrine. It is a working pilgrimage site rather than a museum, whatever the sign says, and watching what people do there is half of the visit.
If it is a Saturday, keep the evening free for the sema. If it is not, you have the whole of tomorrow evening too, and the food to work through in the meantime.
- 09:15
YHT train to Konya
TravelFive high speed services a day from Ankara, arriving at the station on the northern tram line about twenty minutes out of the centre. Book ahead at weekends. Seats on the left have the better view of the plateau.
- 14:30
Mevlana Museum
CultureRumi, the Persian poet and Sufi teacher known here as Mevlana, came to Konya as a refugee from the Mongols and died here in 1273. The fluted turquoise tower over his grave went up soon after and the dervish lodge grew around it. The republic closed the Mevlevi orders in 1925 and the complex became a museum, which is what it is called and not how it is used. Socks rather than shoes, headscarves for women, and a room of illuminated Qurans off the courtyard.
- 19:00
Sema
VisitThe turning ceremony, performed as a religious rite and free to attend, at the cultural centre a few minutes east of the shrine. Saturday evenings all year, starting earlier in winter than in summer, and as often as twice a day in the week before 17 December. Arrive half an hour early for a seat, put the camera away once it begins, and stay to the end.
With more time: The bazaar streets between the shrine and the central mound are where Konya does its own shopping: felt, sheepskin, copper, sacks of dried apricots. Twenty minutes in them is a better end to the afternoon than a second monument.
Day 5 in Konya
Alaaddin Hill and the two Seljuk seminaries
The whole of today happens inside two hundred metres. The mound in the middle of Konya has been built on for several thousand years and is now a park with tea gardens; the sultans put their mosque and their tombs on top of it, and their seminaries around the foot.
Two of those seminaries are museums now, built within fifteen years of each other in the middle of the 13th century. One is about stone and one is about tile, and between them they are the reason to come to Konya if the poetry does not move you.
Eat the roast lamb at lunch rather than dinner. The ovens start early and sell out by two.
- 09:30
Alaaddin Hill
NatureThe mound at the centre of the city, occupied since prehistory, landscaped into a wooded park with a tram loop around it. On top stand the sultans' mosque, a wide plain hall of the 1220s raised on columns taken from Roman ruins, and the domed tomb beside it holding several of the Seljuk rulers of Rum. The fenced excavation on the north side is what is left of their palace.

- 11:30
Karatay Medresesi Museum
VisitA seminary of 1251, now a museum of Seljuk tiles, and the dome is the reason to go in: blue, black and white faience in interlocking stars, with a pool beneath it that once held the reflection. It is the finest interior of its period in Anatolia, it is small, and almost nobody is in it.
- 13:00
Fırın kebabı for lunch
EatLamb roasted for hours in a bread oven until it collapses, sold by weight and eaten on flatbread with raw onion. The places that do it well are a short walk from the mound and they finish when the tray is empty.
- 15:00
Ince Minare Museum
CultureBuilt in 1265 and named for a slender minaret that a lightning strike brought down through the roof in 1901; the rebuilt stump is a standing joke. The carved stone portal, with bands of Arabic script knotted across the doorway, is one of the great pieces of Seljuk masonry, and inside is a museum of carving that includes the winged figures and double headed eagles taken off the city walls.

With more time: The archaeology museum five minutes south is small and largely empty of visitors, with Roman sarcophagi carved in high relief and a room of finds from Çatalhöyük, the neolithic settlement an hour southeast of the city.
Day 6 in Antalya
Over the Taurus, and into the old town at Antalya
The bus leaves mid morning. It runs out of the wheat plain into pine forest, over the passes of the Taurus and then down a long descent with the Mediterranean appearing somewhere near the bottom of it. Sit on the right.
Antalya's bus station is on the tram line, about half an hour from the old town. Drop the bags, then walk out through the marble gate the city built for the emperor Hadrian and down through the walled quarter to the cliff.
Finish on the terrace by the Roman tower at the southern point, where the old town runs out at a hundred foot drop and the sun goes down behind the mountains across the bay.
- 09:30
Bus over the mountains
TravelFour to five hours, several departures a day, booked at the bus station or online the day before. Pay a little more for one of the good companies and you get more legroom, wifi and a steward. Take water and something warm: the air conditioning is enthusiastic.
- 16:45
Hadrian's Gate
OtherA triple arch of white marble built into the city wall for the visit of the emperor Hadrian in 130 AD, and the only surviving gate of the Roman city. It was walled up for centuries, which is why the carving on the coffered ceilings is so crisp, and the ruts worn into the ancient paving under the arches are the best thing in it.
- 18:30
Hıdırlık Tower
ArchitectureA Roman tower of the 2nd century AD on the cliff at the southern tip of the old town, square below and round above, built as a bastion and probably used as a lighthouse. The park around it is where Antalya watches the sun go down over the bay and the mountains behind it, and it is free.

With more time: The lanes of Kaleiçi between the gate and the harbour are full of restored Ottoman houses, most of them now small hotels, and the street cats have the run of the place. It is worth getting lost in for an hour before dinner.
Day 7 in Antalya
Perge in the morning, its statues in the afternoon
The best of the Roman cities on this coast is twenty minutes east, at the edge of a modern town, and it is enormous: a colonnaded street with a water channel running down the middle of it, a stadium, a theatre, baths you can walk through and a gate with round towers.
Go early. There is no shade and by eleven in summer it is unbearable, and the site rewards walking to the far end where the hill and the acropolis are.
Then come back into the city for the museum, which holds the statues that were dug out of the site you have just walked round. Seeing the place first and the sculpture afterwards is the right order and most tours do it backwards.
- 08:30
Perge
HistoricA Pamphylian city at its height in the 2nd and 3rd centuries AD, and one of the most complete Roman street plans anywhere: a colonnaded avenue with a channel of running water down the centre, a Hellenistic gate with two round towers, an agora, baths, a stadium and a theatre, plus two later churches. St Paul preached here. Allow two hours, take water and a hat, and walk to the top for the plan of the whole city.

- 13:00
Lunch back in town
EatPiyaz, the local white bean salad with tahini, is the thing to order in Antalya, and the places doing it well are plain lunch rooms rather than anywhere with a view. Add köfte and you have eaten properly for very little.
- 14:30
Antalya Museum
HistoricOne of the largest museums in Turkey and much better than its dull exterior suggests, with about five thousand objects on show and five times that in store. The sequence runs from the local prehistoric caves to the Ottomans, but the reason to come is the hall of Roman sculpture from Perge: emperors, dancers, gods, most of them lifted from the theatre. The tram stops outside.
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With more time: The long beach at Konyaaltı runs west from below the museum, with the mountains at the end of it, and the water is clear and cold. An hour there at the end of the afternoon is the reward for a morning in the ruins.
Day 8 in Antalya
The theatre at Aspendos, and a hill city with nobody on it
Aspendos is forty five minutes east and the theatre in it is the reason people come to this coast for ruins rather than beaches. It survived because the Seljuks used it as a caravanserai and kept the roof on the stage building, so the whole thing stands: seats, arcade, stage wall and all.
Behind the theatre, up the hill, is the rest of the city, which almost nobody climbs to. The aqueduct that carried water across the valley on two towers is still standing out in the fields.
On the way back, stop at a hilltop city that has been left half excavated and is empty of everybody. Bring proper shoes for it, and do not attempt either site in the middle of a summer afternoon.
- 08:30
Aspendos
HistoricA Roman theatre of the 2nd century AD seating around seven thousand, complete to the top row and still used for concerts, which is rare enough to be worth the trip on its own. Above and behind it lie the agora, basilica and nymphaeum of the city, and two kilometres of aqueduct crosses the valley, built with siphon towers to get water over the rises. The 13th century bridge over the river below is worth the short detour.

- 13:00
Sillyon
HistoricA Pamphylian city on a flat topped hill above the plain, far less excavated than its neighbours and usually deserted. What survives is the ramp up to the gate, stretches of Hellenistic wall and tower, and later buildings scattered across the top; part of the site was lost to a landslide. There is no ticket office, no shade and no path worth the name, and the view over the plain to the sea is the payment.

With more time: The alternative for this day is Termessos, an hour inland and a very different thing: a mountain city at a thousand metres that Alexander decided not to besiege, reached by a steep walk through pine forest, with a theatre on the edge of a gorge. Cooler, harder, and worth swapping in if you would rather climb than wander.
Day 9 in Antalya
The fluted minaret, the mosque that burned, and the old harbour
Give this day to Antalya itself, on foot, starting with the brick minaret that is the symbol of the city and is visible from most of the old town.
Next door is a ruin with a complicated life. It started as a Roman temple, changed religion four times in the centuries that followed, burned down in 1800, and stood open to the sky for two hundred years before anybody rebuilt it.
Then go down the ramp to the Roman harbour under the cliff, which is a marina now, and take a boat out for a couple of hours in the afternoon: the coast from the water, the cliffs, and a waterfall that drops straight into the sea.
- 09:30
Fluted Minaret Mosque
ReligiousThe fluted brick minaret, thirty eight metres of it, was built under the Seljuks in 1230 and is what everyone photographs. The six domed mosque at its foot was rebuilt in 1373 under the Hamidid emirs on the site of a Byzantine church, and the surviving fragments of that church are in the courtyard. It is the middle of the old town and everything else on this day is downhill from it.

- 11:00
Sehzade Korkut Mosque
ReligiousBegun as a Roman temple in the 2nd century AD, converted to a church, then a mosque, then back again more than once; the minaret went up in the early 13th century during one of those turns. A fire in 1800 left only the minaret standing and the rest lay open to the weather until a restoration begun in 2018 reopened it in 2021. The layers are legible in the walls, which is the interest of it.

- 13:30
Harbour piers
VisitThe Roman harbour at the bottom of the cliff, reached by a ramp or a lift from the old town, was the reason Attalos put a city here and is now a marina of gulets and tour boats. Trips leave through the day for two hours or six, out along the cliffs to where the river falls into the sea, with a swimming stop on the longer ones. Buy at the quay, not from the touts up in the lanes.
With more time: In the evening, the terraces along the cliff top west of the harbour are where the city drinks, with the whole bay and the Beydağları mountains in front of them. Sunset is the busy hour and worth booking a table for.
Day 10 in Antalya
The waterfall at the sea, then the airport
One last thing before the flight, and it is a quarter of an hour east along the coast. The Düden river, having crossed the plain from the mountains, runs out of land at Lara and drops off the cliff straight into the Mediterranean.
There is a park above it with viewing platforms and a café, and the boats from the harbour come in close from below. It takes an hour including the taxi.
The airport sits at the end of the tram line, so a flight from mid afternoon onwards is comfortable and one before noon is not.
- 09:15
Düden Lower Waterfalls
VisitThe lower falls of the Düden, where the river reaches the cliff at the eastern edge of the city and goes over it into the sea in a broad white curtain. The park above has the viewpoints and is free to walk in; the best view is actually from the water, which is why every harbour boat swings past it. Strongest in spring, thinner by August.
- 12:00
Tram to the airport
TravelTram line 1A runs from the old town out to Terminal 1 in about fifty minutes, every quarter of an hour, and takes a contactless card. It does not serve Terminal 2, so for an international departure change to the free shuttle or take a taxi.
With more time: With a late flight, the upper falls of the same river are inland to the north, in a wooded park where a path runs behind the water, and the aquarium on the west beach is the standard answer to a rainy last day with children.
Before you go
Getting there and away
Fly into Ankara Esenboğa and out of Antalya. Esenboğa has direct flights from a handful of European cities and from most of Central Asia and the Gulf, and hourly connections from both Istanbul airports that take an hour. Antalya, at the other end, is served by half of Europe from April to October and by daily domestic flights all year.
An open jaw ticket, into one and out of the other, costs little more than a return and saves a day of backtracking. If your airline will not do it, two one way flights through Istanbul usually will.
From Ankara airport, the Havaş shuttle runs into Kızılay in the centre. At the Antalya end, the tram from Terminal 1 reaches the old town in about fifty minutes for the price of a bus ride.
The two transfers
Ankara to Konya is a high speed train, five a day, an hour and three quarters, and the most comfortable travelling you will do in Turkey. Book on the state railways site or app a few days ahead; it sells out at weekends. The line runs across bare plateau at 250 kilometres an hour, which is worth a window seat once.
Konya to Antalya is a bus, four to five hours, climbing over the Taurus mountains and dropping down to the coast through pine forest. Several companies run it and the good ones have three seats to a row, wifi and a steward with tea. Book the day before at the bus station or online.
Neither leg needs a car. A car is worth hiring for one day in Antalya if you want the ruins on your own schedule, and is a liability in Ankara.
When to go
April to early June, or September and October. The plateau is bitterly cold from December to March and snow closes the Taurus passes; July and August are punishing in Konya and worse in Antalya, where the coast runs into the high thirties.
Spring gets you wildflowers on the plateau, water in the waterfalls and a sea that is just about swimmable by late May. Autumn gets you warm water and empty ruins, which is the better trade.
One fixed date is worth knowing: the ceremonies around 17 December in Konya, when the city marks the anniversary of Rumi's death. The city fills, and rooms need booking months out.
Practicalities
Each city has its own transport card and they do not work in each other's machines. Ankara's Başkent Kart is the one to buy properly, because foreign contactless cards do not reliably work on its buses and metro. Konya and Antalya both take a contactless card at the barrier.
Ankara and Konya are inland cities where tourists are a small minority, and while English is common enough in hotels it is not in restaurants. Antalya is the opposite in every respect.
Konya is noticeably more conservative than the other two. Cover shoulders and knees at the shrine and the mosques, and expect most restaurants not to serve alcohol.
This is not the Turkey on the posters. Nobody is going to show you a photograph of Ankara and make you want to book a flight.
What the route gives you instead is a country in order: three thousand years of Anatolia in one museum, the Seljuk capital that came after it, and a Roman province on the coast at the end, with a train and a bus between them and no queue at any of it.
Go deeper on one city
Each of these covers a single stop on this route in its own right.
Make it your trip
Every stop, day and place here lands in your account as an editable trip. Move the days around, swap a city, add your own bookings and costs, and share it with whoever is coming.
Common questions
- Why skip Istanbul?
- Because plenty of people have already been, and because everything here is cheaper, emptier and easier. If this is your first trip to Turkey, Istanbul should probably be on it. If it is your second, this route shows you the country the first one drove past: the plateau, the Seljuk cities, and a Roman coast that has nothing to do with the Aegean.
- Is Ankara actually worth three nights?
- Two full days, yes, and that is what three nights buys. The Museum of Anatolian Civilizations is as good as any archaeological museum in the country, the citadel is a real neighbourhood rather than a monument, and Anıtkabir explains modern Turkey better than any amount of reading. Nobody stays for the city itself, and nobody needs to.
- Do I need to book the train and the bus in advance?
- The train, yes, a few days ahead, and earlier for a weekend. It is the only high speed service on this route and it fills. The bus to Antalya can be bought the day before at the station or online, and there are enough departures that missing one costs you an hour.
- Could I add Cappadocia?
- Yes, and the natural way is between Ankara and Konya: a bus or a train and a bus east to Nevşehir, three nights there, then a bus south to Konya, which adds four days. That does make it a rather more conventional trip, which may be exactly what you want.
- Is a car worth hiring?
- Only in Antalya, and only for one day. The ruins to the east are all reachable by dolmuş from the bus station, but the connections eat time and the hilltop sites are awkward without one. Ankara and Konya are both better on foot and public transport, and parking in Ankara is genuinely miserable.